I’ve never seen sex as a huge component of a relationship, despite having a significant other, I’ve never felt emotionally attached during sex. Sex is just sex, it’s as simple as that. I’m human; I have desires and at times in my life, I give into my desires. I’ve taken part in sexual intimacy but it doesn’t define me as a person. Just because I’m not a virgin doesn’t make me a slut, it doesn’t make me a whore; those are just gender-based names given to women who haven’t met up to certain ‘standards.’ You don’t need to have a ceremony like a purity ball to announce your commitment to remaining a virgin until marriage because if you did it for yourself, you wouldn’t need a public ceremony. It doesn’t make you any better or worse than me. Get off your high horse because here’s a reality check, there’s a double standard that exists in our world because when it comes to a mans choice in sexual acts, no one cares. So just because you think badly about premarital sex doesn’t mean your future lover will. Are you gonna think poorly about him just because he’s not a virgin too?
Sex doesn’t define a person.